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A
Brief Guide to Separation and Divorce |
SEPARATION
Separation
is distinct from a divorce in that it is an informal arrangement
reached between two parties. The couple can decide between themselves
a date of separation and thereafter exist as "separate households".
A separation
agreement can be drawn up to encompass the terms agreed between
you, however this is merely a contract between the parties and is
not in all circumstances binding upon the Court. Further one cannot
rely on the powers of the Court to force the other party to disclose
information which may assist to negotiate the terms of agreement.
It requires both parties to voluntarily co-operate in the procedure.
In most cases,
a Court will usually adopt the terms of a separation agreement reached
between the parties in any future divorce proceedings, unless there
are exceptional circumstances which would warrant a reinvestigation
of the situation.
DIVORCE
What are
the Grounds?
There is only
one ground for obtaining a divorce and this is "that the marriage
has irretrievably broken down". However you must support this
statement by evidence of one of five facts:
1. Adultery
- your spouse has committed adultery and you find it intolerable
to live with them.
2. Unreasonable behaviour - your spouse has behaved in such
a way that you cannot reasonably be expected to live with them.
3. Desertion - your spouse has deserted you for a continuous
period of at least 2 years or more.
4. Two years separation and consent - you and your spouse
have been living separately for 2 years or more and your spouse
consents to the divorce.
5. Five years separation without consent - you and your spouse
have been living separately for 5 years or more and it is not necessary
for your spouse to consent to the divorce.
THE PROCEDURE
1. A Petition is drawn up.
This document
contains basic information regarding names and addresses of the
parties, details concerning the children and the statement upon
which you rely to prove that the marriage has "irretrievably
broken down".
2. The Petition
refers to various requests headed "Prayers" asking for
(a) the dissolution
of the marriage;
(b) addressing
the question of costs; and
(c) dealing
with the financial provisions for both yourself and the children.
3. If there
are any children under 16 or under 18 but still in full time education,
a "statement of arrangements" needs to be prepared. This
sets out arrangements that have been made for the continuing care
and financing of the children. Parties should try and agree arrangements
for the children between themselves, but this is not always possible,
and there is recourse to the Courts in such circumstances.
4. Often sorting
out the financial issues can take time. If matters cannot be agreed
by means of negotiation an application for ancillary relief needs
to be made to the Court. This can be made at any time during the
divorce procedure and is usually achieved within its duration. However,
even if a decree absolute has been granted finally dissolving your
marriage, financial claims still remain open until they have been
dealt with by the Court, or by agreement.
If, however,
you remarry before making an application to the Court for financial
claims within your earlier divorce proceedings, you will be prevented
by the "remarriage bar" from so doing. The Court may be
asked to make a final decision in respect of maintenance, capital,
assets or adjusting the way in which the property is held.
Once all this
information is amassed, the matter is either dealt with by means
of negotiation between the parties and/or their solicitors, or by
means of a final contested hearing before a Judge in Court.
COSTS
The costs
of obtaining a divorce depends upon your financial circumstances.
If you are in receipt of Legal Advice and Assistance under the Green
Form scheme you may be exempt from the filing fees.
In other circumstances
there will be a Court fee for filing the Petition and to obtain
a decree absolute to finally dissolve your marriage. These are the
disbursements, however further costs will be involved in preparing
the necessary paperwork and representing you in the proceedings.
Those who are
unemployed or in receipt of some form of State benefits may be eligible
for Legal Aid. The rules with regard to eligibility are complex
however we will advise you upon this as appropriate. A Legal Aid
Certificate may further be available to some parties to cover representation
at Court regarding child based or financial issues.
For advice and
information on family law matters, contact our Family Department
on
Maghera:
028 796 42224
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